Because it’s THE basis of any potential relationship with a woman.
The equation is very simple: If you succeed this first appointment, you’re off to a good start. If, on the other hand, you screw it up, you’re off to a bad start … Worse, if your target is an ugly, jealous girlfriend, she’ll say, “No it’s ok, you gave it a chance, you have to passes to other things ”
Game over, so fucking early …
But this is not our subject today.
A first romantic rendezvous in all its splendor
In short, a man can mess up an appointment because of several elements. Either because of himself, when he puts himself personally under pressure desperately trying to seduce the miss and then turn into a girlfriend from the first meeting, or by failing in the famous phrase: The Interrogation.
The interrogation is the phase where the logical side is triggered in the woman and begins to bombard you with questions, to test you and see if you will remain congruent with yourself. It’s the famous Shit-Test that we treated a lot of times …
“Have you ever married? ”
” Yes of course. In fact, I am CURRENTLY married. I have 6 women but I seek the 7th, if you promise to be good, the post is for you 🙂 ”
The miss tried to destabilize you so take control of the situation, but luckily you impeccably foiled the test, and YOU took control.
And so on…
You will understand then when a man keeps control and leads the dance to an appointment, it naturally tends to succeed in the rules of art, this first meeting.
I am going to share with you a list of 10 top questions, taken from DocLove’s “The System”, to ask your sweetheart to be the undisputed leader of the meeting.
In fact, these questions will allow you to get a lot of information about the princess. On his personality, his way of thinking, his way of behaving and, more importantly, his vision of relationships.
10 QUESTIONS TO ASK DURING A FIRST APPOINTMENT
- What do you think is the biggest mistake a man makes when he is in a relationship?
- Do you think that the man, once in a relationship, becomes macho, or affectionate?
- What are your expectations for a married life?
- Have you ever gone out with a man who was a real challenge for you?
- What do you think are things men do not understand about women?
- Has a man ever broken your heart? (The more beautiful she is, the more she will say no, tell her that she is lying, just for fun :))
- What are you afraid of when you open your heart to a man?
- Do you have the habit of dropping where the opposite?
- Do you think you have never had a perfect romantic relationship?
- Why did your last relationship fail? ( Will she assume or will she put everything on the back of her ex-boyfriend…)
This style of questions is called “open questions”.
Questions that beautifully create conversation, attraction and, most importantly, give a general idea of the miss. Instead of letting it test you, YOU test it.
But be careful, know that you are going to have the real answer after just asking him questions related to your very first question. If for example, you ask him (1), do not skip directly to question (2). But rather extend and read between the lines. The truth is revealed by digging and digging. After, go to the next question.
I’m going to share with you a lot of these questions in my next eBook where I’ll talk about my seduction method , but what’s important, what you need to know and keep in mind is, when your princess decides to test you (shit-test), never give a LOGICAL answer, and show him the Seducer you are 🙂
Logic kills emotions, and emotions in a woman are sacred …
Before you leave, I have to tell you something …
Make a first appointment depends on yourself
So, it’s true that girlfriends always have a little influence on each other, especially about guys and first dates. On the other hand, I still assume that a woman is capable enough to make her own decisions, like a big girl.
After all, it is not with her friends that she will sleep or spend the rest of her life … Finally, I do not hope for her … In the meantime, it is up to you to manage the situation of the first appointment with her.
Clearly, guys, be very careful with the interview of the first appointment. Yes, I know, I repeat myself, but it’s never too much to say it and say it again. These 10 questions that I propose to you are effective, certainly, but take care also not to pose them in a row as if you were doing him a hiring interview, let us agree.
Of course, choose your questions (because you will not swing all 10 at once during your first appointment). And above all, especially, expect to have to answer it too! Well yes, guys, asking your questions, at some point, she will necessarily ask you “and you? “… And there you will not have the right to parade. You can stall a small twisted response here and there to regain control of the situation from time to time and to destabilize it but she will insist and she will want answers, YOUR answers.
Women are not the type to give up, believe me, so take that into account. Moreover, go solo for the first appointment because the goal is not to be too intrusive or to make it uncomfortable. The goal is to seduce her and, above all, to get to know her little by little.
Everything in its time. Choose your questions for the first appointment and keep them for later, for the following appointments.
You could for example, at the first appointment, ask him the 3, the 6 and the 10.
By asking her what her expectations are of a couple’s life, you will know what she wants, what she expects and whether you will be compatible by comparing or associating YOUR expectations.
If you’re interested in his or her emotional past, knowing about one or more men who might have broken her heart, you’ll also know what kind of woman it is. You will see whether she is honest, whether she has a heart of stone, whether she has learned from her past pains, whether she still craves and is still able to love despite her past sufferings, and so on. This is a very important point that will allow you to know more about his state of mind and the state of his heart.
Breakups happen for many reasons. If you ask her why her last bond ended, you’ll get more information about her, what she does not support (which could lead to a breakup), and how she handles a breakup.
You will see if she is disrespectful to her ex or if she remains polite and courteous to her. Of course, everything will depend on the reason (s) of the break but you will be able to judge the temperament and the maturity of a woman in his way of talking about his ex and his last break, among other details.
We arrive at the end of this article. I hope you enjoyed it. Feel free to leave me a comment to tell me what you think.