3 Fast & Effective Ways, To Become More Sociable and Less Lonely
The social circle is today, one of the crucial elements that determine who you are.
Tell me who you’re going out with, and I’ll tell you who you are.
Before you even conquer young women and seduce them, you must be someone who is socially fulfilled. That said, you must lead a peaceful life with a lifestyle that allows you to flourish flawlessly.
The women will follow, and like flies, they will fall.
For several years, I was someone very shy and introverted. I did not dare go to others, never … I was always alone in my corner, and I would die slowly.
Not good.
I’m writing this article and I know there are a lot of guys who have exactly the same problem.
Dear friend…
You can not seduce a girl if you have two friends with whom you chat on Facebook.
There are people who can just go out, go out and meet new people on the fly. It’s a gift they have.
For others, the story is much more complicated.
If you are one of these people, then follow the advice of this article …
Also Read: Best ways to overcome shyness and social anxiety
Get out of your home more often and always be around people
Even if you do not talk to anyone, being around people will allow you to be inserted into a social environment. This allows your brain to get used, little by little, to this rhythm and this dynamic. But good.
Because if you stay at home, at home, play the console and surf the Internet, you choke yourself and kill the charm of any social interaction. I know it’s good to drink good mint tea at home, especially in winter, but it does not help you to progress or even learn to seduce.
Whenever you have the opportunity, you must go out of your home. And I’m not talking about going out for bread in the local bakery.
The main thing here is to get out of your comfort zone to ren
to counter new people. Never stay home, all alone, you will die slowly.
For example…
Explore your city and know what’s going on!
Guys with an interesting social life are always aware of what is happening in their city. They know where to eat at not too expensive after a nice evening watered. And know all the dates of concerts and festivals. And Also know when this little jazz band will play in this little bar lost in the city.
They really know everything!
The shy and lonely guys practice the strategy of the ostrich. They do not want to know anything because they are good about themselves (my ass yeah) They do not know what’s going on around them because most of the time they are at home playing Warcraft with their two friends virtual.
Do not be like these guys.
Take your time exploring your city quietly, and always try to be aware of everything happening in the area. You will become, little by little, someone interesting and less lonely. When you meet new people, you will know what to offer if ever one of your friends wants to do something.
If you say a “Friday night, there is a small group of super nice Jazz playing in the Maclaren. You must come, guys, you will love! Or else, we can always go to the Flow pub, I have free drinks tickets … ”
You will automatically go for the social guy par excellence. Optionally, you intrigue people: ” This guy seems to know what’s going on here … “
To be kept informed, nothing simple. I’m sure there are event magazines in your city, sometimes they are free. You must always have them at hand. Also, Facebook is your friend. You can not imagine how powerful the ” events ” application is. Not only to know what’s going on but also to flirt subtly on facebook 🙂
Try new activities
Do you like reading books? Books to change your life? So go to Starbucks and indulge yourself, instead of lonely in your rotten chair.
Do you like bodybuilding? The Lafay method is superb, economical and efficient, but if you are socially reserved, I advise you to join a gym club. You will meet new people and, optionally, sexy girls in their tight and tight suits. Hmmmmm it excites me, it excites me 😀
Also, a very classic and trendy plan these days: Salsa. I have a friend who has just married his dance partner. He is happy as not possible, and I am happy for him. If he had not joined the club last year, he would never have met his wife. Luck? Coincidence?
Set a goal to discover a new pub/bar every weekend. Even if you do not like to go alone, you do not have to stay for hours. A half hour time for a drink is more than enough. The essential thing is to ACT and leave your home. If you do not like pub/bar, then set the goal of discovering a new restaurant every week. This is my favorite activity because I never cook at home 🙂
These are simple tips, but if you feel lonely and alone in your world, try to apply them, you will see their effectiveness.
Now, it’s your turn to play.
