5 Amateur Mistakes to Avoid on Your First Date With Women
I always remember my first date with a girl, in the pre-seduction era.
Obviously had plenty of them before starting my personal development journey, but I remember that every time I would do something. Once the appointment is over, I call the girl … no answer. Send a text … nothing. I’m still calling … nada.
The curtains are falling. The lights go out. The spectators cry.
Ah, the sad time of the nice guy and all I’ve been …
But not anymore!
Almost 10 years after having embarked on the ship of seduction to the land of personal development (where I will be King one day) every first appointment with a pretty woman I meet, turns into a party of pleasure (and partly feet in the air, later) because I can now see everything! Almost.
The little crap/mistakes I made, the awkward behaviors, the whites of conversations that were stressing me to death … never again.
Now, I am tall.
Now, as a top athlete, I am no longer entitled to amateur errors.
And precisely, in the article of the day, I want to share with you the amateur mistakes that you made during your first appointment. Avoid these mistakes, and watch your success with women exploding the ceiling.
Let’s go for the SHOW!THE AMATEUR ERRORS YOU MAKE AT A FIRST APPOINTMENT
That’s it. You are a big man. And have swallowed the red pill (a reference to the film MATRIX-I will tell you about it soon in an article) and know that from now on, everything depends on … YOU.
If you do not act, if you do not take action, if you do not take your life in hand, no one will do it for you.
Welcome to the real world.
You are now a great man.
How to avoid making mistakes of beginners, the con?
Simple. Do not do the following:
ERROR # 1: Put the princess on a pedestal
To think that the woman you are going to meet is THE woman of your life when you have not even met her (to take her quick number does not count) is a big mistake.
A big bullshit actually.
By doing this, you will send signals, subconsciously, to your brain, and you will start to stress like a little loser.
A real mistake of the amateur.
Stay cool. Breathe a good shot. Chill the fuck out.
Life is too short to make it complicated. Consider the miss as a simple friend with whom you will have a drink. Nothing more. After, YOU will decide if it’s worth it to continue and move on to the next level.
Put it in the Friend Zone, BEFORE it puts you in SA Friend-Zone.
Reverse roles, this is the key to success in seduction.
ERROR # 2: DO NOT HAVE A PLAN
“Do you want us to go where? Do you like Latino Bars? Are you more like Sushi or Pasta Italian? “
BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH
That kind of bullshit does not work with women.
If you do this, you clearly tell the miss that you are a Loser first class.
Women want to be with LEADERS. No losers!
Have a plan, and even a plan B and a plan C!
If the first Bar starts on fire, take it by the hand and say:
” Come. I know where we are going. “
Do not say another word. Shut your mouth. Take it by the hand. Game ON!
“Oh my God Pauline! We arrived at this bar which was on fire, Richard took me by the hand and it was a super sexy moment! I already love it “
Your princess will tell the next day to her girlfriend.
ERROR # 3: ARRIVE VERY LATE
So yes, I recommend doing 5 to 10 minutes late to not pass for the guy super excited who cannot believe his eyes and who is ready to wait in the rain without any problem …
But if you misuse arriving 20 or 30 minutes late, you’re going to break all the work you’ve done before. Basically, you will lose points in the eyes of the Miss, as you are an irresponsible man. You know, women, it is projected in the 5 or even 10 years to come when they meet a man for the first time …
To see yourself as an irresponsible man means that you can not take care of yourself and your family.
ERROR # 4: Neglect the details
Life is full of surprises.
I understand that something may happen at the last minute, you stress, you do not want to be late, you take your white shirt badly ironed and in addition, has a small hole down, and you say to yourself: “That go, she will not notice anything … “
Hahaha, serious guy? You make me laugh.
I wrote an article in 2008 already saying that women have super sophisticated 3D scanners, we are in 2015 now and guess what, it is still the case.
If you think the Miss will not see your little invisible hole, think again. You did not get anything.
Not only will she see the little hole you have in the shirt, but she will also see the little button you have inside your nose.
Serious guys …
Women, it scans!
The thing I see often is the nails.
Legend has it that the first thing women look at in a man is his hands. And I confirm.
If you have the nails of a mechanic, a little manicure will do the trick.
And NO … it’s not GAY!
Just tell the girl that you do the trick of not doing the polish at the end. The first time I did a manicure was to shoot Glamorous Pochette Videos where I show How to Fold Suits Pouches. The assistant who was in charge of the production told me that I had to do the manicure, I told her that I’m not gay and that it’s ok … but she said: no manicure, no video.
I do the thing … the same day, just after the shoot, I go out for a drink with a pretty brunette, the first compliment she brings me out: “you have very pretty hands. I just love it “
My life has changed since 🙂
ERROR # 5: DO NOT CONVERSATE
This is really the perfect mistake of the amateur seduction.
If you think that a dating must be 50-50, then again, you did not get anything.
The woman as a WOMAN is there to test your intellectual abilities: see if you are able to conduct a conversation, see if you know LISTENING and bounce on what she tells you, etc …
Basically, on a first date, you have to apply the famous Pareto law or the 20/80 law.
You make 80% of the conversation, it makes the 20%.
Just ask the right question, ask WHY (explanations) and bounce on what the miss is telling you.
Seduction games are also a great way to fuel the conversation and stimulate the imagination of your princess. Even after years in the world of seduction, I continue to enjoy playing the famous House Game with my sweetheart on a first date.
Here. We arrive at the end of this article.
If you avoid these 5 amateur mistakes, you increase your chances of seeing the girl for a 2 and or even 3 rd appointment. It’s as simple as that.
Keep in mind that the BEST advice to make the first appointment is precisely not to SEARCH desperately to succeed: Go for a good time with the Miss, and if after 30 minutes you will Piss off, no need to suffer all night-have some balls to leave and go do something more productive.