7 Steps To Getting Out From A Girl’s Friend Zone (And Never Going Back To It!).
Since my inbox is flooded with always the same question, I decided today to address a very topic important in the eyes of every seducer: The Friend Zone.
But this time, we will change slightly tactics, and we will focus instead on how to get out of the Friend Zone of a girl.
Before you begin, let me introduce a classic scenario …
You meet a girl. You succumb to its charm. You become friends. You start going out, making plans, more often. You begin to feel a soft spot for her. You want to move to the next level of the relationship. But you are afraid to ruin everything. Time passes. You are always FRIENDS. You spend VERY good times every time you are together. You are getting closer and closer. Finally, you decide to take your courage with both hands and tell him about your feelings. She brings you the very famous:
“Oh it’s cute, but I prefer to be friends …”
Now try to REMOVE this
whore of Friend Zone, we will call now us, the nightmare of the seducer.
So, is that the Game is Over?
In fact, I’ll tell you something very important. If a girl put you in her Friend Zone, it’s not her fault, but the YOURS. Secondly, being dramatically swayed in this fateful area (who said hell?) Means ONE thing: Your princess gave you a chance, but you did not know how to GRAB it correctly. You had messed up everything.
But let me tell you one thing … It’s not because a girl has swayed you in her Friend Zone that you are going to whine like a little kid who has lost his toy (Barbie?) It’s not the end of the world after all.
Even the greatest seducers in the universe have had their share of this phenomenon. And even if I do not consider myself a great seducer, believe me, and as you will soon discover in my biography that I will publish in an exclusive report format, I ALSO I have dealt, several times, to this famous Friend Zone of a girl.
And you know what, I was pretty good actually.
To make our article more alive, and therefore interesting, we are going to assume that YOU are, CURRENTLY, in the FZ of a girl who has freshly put you in, and you will, therefore, follow the 7 steps that I am going to share with you, to get your head out of the water!
Get out from the Girl’s Friend Zone, the steps to follow:
1- Accept the reality of things
Yes. As I said.
You do NOT have the right to beg or beg for a second chance. Do not be pathetic. Leave these kinds of procedures to losers and failed dudes. You are a respectful, classy guy, and it’s OUT of question to do so. I PROHIBIT YOU. She made her decision to keep your friends, and it’s not a “dog” behavior that will change her mind.
In fact, we are going to work on its illogical and irrational side. It is not worthwhile to humiliate you for free. At this point in the situation, you better focus on yourself than on her.
2 – The transition!
After realizing that begging is out of the question, we naturally arrive at a very important step in the process: YOU.
Once this article read (and once a small commentary was written 😉 you will have to get to work. (I remind you, you are currently in a girl’s Friend Zone, and you are trying to conquer her)
Your mission will be the word: Change. I mean, YOUR change … You have to multiply by 2 your progress in personal development :
• Experiment a few things again (in the field that suits to you!)
• Start eating HEALTHY
• Work your body, play sports
• Learn to do something practical, really useful (lately, I started gardening)
• Learn how to make cocktails. Learn how to cook too.
• Adopt a New Look
In short … IMPROVE your everyday life! Believe me, you will feel a lot better, and you will especially boost your self-confidence, so you will be incredibly ready for the next step.
3 – Have fun, like a little crazy … With the others!
There is this famous phrase that says: Never put your eggs in one basket. that is to say, never concentrate all its resources in a single project, taking the risk of being able to lose everything in one go. The same thing applies here in our case. You have NOT, once again, the right to focus on ONE girl.
You have to EXIT to meet other people. Your friends have other friends, right? Well, start working on your social circle and boost it (if you do not know how to do it, wait for the release of my exclusive report;)
Meet new girls and learn to flirt with them. It’s a golden opportunity to apply EVERYTHING you read here on the blog. It does not matter if you get rejected early. In fact, it’s normal. But keep in mind that the more women you meet, the better your chances of getting out of this girl’s Friend Zone.
And the more she is jealous, the better (Normal, you will tell her that all your friends are top models, dangerously in love with you)
4 – No romantic appointment, please!
It would be very stupid to proceed at this stage of the situation. In fact, and as I tell you quite often, NEVER tell a girl:
” I invite you tonight at the restaurant xxx “
but prefer instead:
” Hey! tonight I’m going to eat a good meal at the restaurant xxx, it would be cool if you could join me “
The first sentence gives a “serious” frame to your invitation. You give the girl control of the situation. And if miss refuses your invitation, you are cooked. No dinner. You will die of hunger.
On the other hand, in the second expression, you subtly tell her that you have ALREADY decided to go to this cool restaurant, and even if she does not agree to join you, you go anyway. You do not care about his decision actually. YOU have control. And the more a girl knows you are making fun of her presence, the more she will want to make a place for herself in your world.
So yes, never invite her to do anything, but make sure she accompanies you. Do you want to buy new clothes? tell him! Want to see the new movie Kick-Ass, tell him!
Propose, never invite.
5 – Desecrate it
The disrepute is the most powerful technique for seduction. We agree. Disreputation should be your massive weapon of seduction … Never hesitate to place destabilizing remarks and subtle phrases that hide your interest. As an example, I like to place a:
” Honestly, I’m very happy to have a friend like you … no no, more than a friend, a little sister to talk to and communicate with “
10mn later, if she puts on a good perfume, I tell her:
” You should stop using this perfume on you. It’s very sexy, and I’m afraid one day jump on you … It excites me… “
This is called the art of confusion: the art of flirting;)
6 – Touch Her Every Time
Touch it again and again!
Touching someone with whom you communicate makes it more comfortable and therefore, it makes your communication much smoother and more efficient.
The same thing applies in seduction.
When you touch the girl you are planning to seduce, you create some kind of glowing relationship between her and you. You put comfort between you, and the game of seduction can only be more optimal.
Start to touch it gradually but, most importantly, more often. Touch her forearm, her hands, back, shoulders etc … do it naturally WITHOUT looking at your hands otherwise miss will ask you questions about you: Does he have the right to do that?
Be peace, relax and trust yourself, touch her every time you are with her. Little by little, these “basic” touches are going to turn into sexual touches, and that’s where the serious things begin …
7 – Take the leadership of the relationship
Arrived at this point, you have probably left with the girl a different impression. From now on, she no longer sees you in the same light. It’s a different man who stands in front of her, and it’s for your pleasure … Is not it?
Now it’s up to YOU to play and take control seriously of the situation, I mean, the leadership of the relationship. For nothing in the world, she will do it. Do not believe that after all that you have done (well, I hope) she will someday strike your house and tell you:
” Well, I have thought about our situation, I do not want to be your friend but I want to be with you, make love my love… “
It would be TOO beautiful to be true (and too con trying to believe it …)
So yes, you will move your little buttocks to take your destiny in hand. And I’ll tell you how, in a moment, after the ad.
Oh, I forgot, you do not watch TV .. but more seriously, when I say that you have to take the leadership so your destiny in hand (note that we are talking about going out of the Friend Zone) you need everything simply, and excuse me the expression, have balls to do it.
When you are going to be face to face with her, try to unfold your best seduction game like you’ve never done before: flirt to the maximum, take the most out of it, and touch it to the maximum (be careful, do not do it) and just when your beloved princess begins to feel comfortable with you, make a good statement of interest , that is to say, you will declare your interest with great subtlety and elegance and class: Speak in a soft and deep voice. Look it straight in the eyes and keep eye contact when you speak. Adopt a sexy and devastating little smile then … Kiss her!
If she lets herself be kissed, bingo! You have won! If she dodges your kiss, no problem, smile and says: ” You, you like to play … “
I will then advise you to support and push your seduction game one more step, and retry the kiss. If she dodges it for the second time, know that you are wasting time with a girl who does not deserve you.
So, what do you think of these 7 steps to get out of a girl’s friend zone?
We’ll do a little recap together if, however, it’s still not clear in your mind.
You must do with. Well yes, even if it gives you a feeling of being castrated when your “friend” tells you that she only considers you as a friend, well you can not put a knife under her throat and force her to change speeches. Do with it to start. Never be the guy who begs or forces. Keep your dignity visible!
Take care of yourself and, above all, think of YOU. The goal is to regain your self-esteem and feel how much you can turn the scales in your favor. But for that, you have to start by pampering yourself and do things that will really make you feel good.
I understand that it’s THIS girl you want and not another. On the other hand, widen your horizons and do not close doors. Enjoy new encounters, see other girls, indulge yourself, let yourself be tempted. Moreover, use these meetings and these other girls to train you in your game of seducer. Test, try, observe and it will serve you with this girl who obsesses you but who has zoned you friend for the moment … Do not neglect the fact that this girl might even be jealous to see you or know that you are dating other girls so expect eventually a click on his side (in the best case) but do you do not boast too much of your date. Always be a gentleman and keep your garden secret for you especially if you want to seduce this girl and not another.
Never make a situation too serious or too romantic by being in a FriendZone. Do not behave with her as if she were already your girlfriend because, as a reminder, you are still in the middle of her FriendZone. Warning!
If you are not comfortable with the disrepute (point 5.), do not worry. Use humor, your humor. Make her laugh but do not become her clown either. Know the right way to destabilize it while putting your game of seduction to break this FriendZone.
Do not forget the importance of the Touch. When you communicate with her, that you are with her, touch her. Know how to establish this proximity and this sexual connection to turn the scales around and seduce her.
Do not take any sign from him for granted. Stay in control of the situation, master of the relationship. It is you who hold the bull by the horns and your sweet will not come to you on a silver platter. No, you will still have to put in some effort and beat the iron while it’s still hot. When will come the moment to kiss him, pay attention to his reactions? Does she make you that kiss or does she reject you? If she kisses you too, obviously, it’s all good for you. However, if it repels you, do not panic, take it on the tone of humor and retry immediately, without the heavy of course but say with more virility, do you impose. If she really refuses, do not insist. Also Read: How To Impress A Girl On The First Date Without Flirting With Her.
Leave the FriendZone: The last word
Keep in mind that it is much more interesting to try to seduce new acquaintances than to try to seduce a friend who has swayed you in her friend zone, that can be a cruel loss, and time and money. energy. But believe me, going out of a girl’s Friend Zone is a real little seducer. I can share with you a little story I had recently with a girl who initially put me in her FZ, then, two weeks later, she found herself strangely in my apartment, in the room operations … If you know what I mean; 😛 )