Approach a woman: 6 reasons to take action!
To approach a woman that we know is not always easy but when it comes to approaching an unknown, the difficulty rises a notch.
But the question that arises: why approach an unknown woman? What are the real chances of Getting an appointment with that charming person?
Yet this woman you flashed on, she’s there, alone, she seems to be bored, maybe she’s just waiting for a gesture from you, a word?
Come on, come try your luck, you never know, you could manage to overcome your shyness and reach your goal.
Between the thousand questions that burn your lips, and hesitations, we must focus on the opportunity to go to meet her.
1. First, be aware that you are not risking much or nothing at all
At most, if the approach does not work, you will be denied and then? Is it the end of the world? Surely not.
And then the fact that girls can slap you for having approached, it is absolutely false, unless you have shown yourself rude and vulgar!
As for the question of ridicule, well, you know what we say, it never killed anyone: a respectful approach, with a smile on the lips, can not decently end in a ridiculous way.
And most importantly, do not forget one important thing: the flirting, the approaching love, the boarding of the girls is a game. So have fun, take a distance from all this and enjoy the moment! Be yourself and if the answer in return for your advance ends with a refusal and you are mortified for a few hours, move on, there are other fish in the river!
At least you’ll have the pride of having gone to the end of your step, to have at least tried.
2. 100% of the winners have tried their luck
What does that mean? Simply, that to win, you must have played at least once, even if the jackpot does not seem easily accessible, even if there are other people who are on the spot, the important thing is to try.
It’s stupid but if you do not try, if you do not dare to meet her, you’ll never know if you like her or not if it wants to spend a moment with you or not.
Even if the chances of conquering this beautiful stranger are slim, there is always a chance. It’s always better than doing nothing and seeing the opportunity take off, or worse, get another guy to take the opportunity, right?
3. You have only one life, don’t you? And in this state of mind, it is better to have remorse rather than regrets
It is better to have tried once rather than to gnaw at the blood, saying “ah, if I had known …” or “maybe I should have …”.
Instead of abstaining, to stay planted there to watch her approach another, to avoid regretting your whole life if you feel that it is the woman of your life, dare! Try your luck! Who knows what will be the outcome?
4. Again, it is a question of daring
It happens that the crush is reciprocal and the collision is done alone as if the woman was just waiting for you to come to meet her.
It is simple, obvious and the conversation is fluid, all found, the ideas fuse in all directions, it even laughs at your first jokes.
And it also happens that she does not find you to her liking, she is not available or that your conversation does not suit her: it is necessary then to make a reason, it is perhaps that you do not finally have nothing to say to you. So many little signs that indicate that we must move on.
But everything starts with the words, by the first words: dare to meet her , be polite, fun, a little off-beat if possible, put her at ease without rushing or annoying her and you will be surprised that she will respond favorably to your words, that she will even agree to continue this first contact with a later appointment.
Sometimes, addressing an unknown person is as simple and effective as that. Nothing more, nothing less.
5. This situation of approaching a woman, especially in a public place, you have often witnessed
Remember those men who tried, sometimes unsuccessfully, to approach a woman and who took a nice rake!
And what about those who are stuck, almost paralyzed in their corner, to devour this beautiful stranger without ever daring?
Have you wondered what type do you want to be? Whoever has dared (and who may succeed in the evening to fail) or the other who tries nothing?
The woman you want to approach, like any self-respecting woman, expects a man to show himself to be a little enterprising, to have the audacity to be this one.
Show what you are capable of, you will even be surprised by yourself and the favorable outcome of this daring.
6. Nobody is perfect, neither you nor she and it is often our small imperfections which seduce the most
Women are very attentive to these little details that often move them. (That’s why I advise you to always take care of your style )
So if you’re awkward in your words, in your actions while remaining respectful and courteous, there’s no reason for it to go wrong.
On the contrary, it is possible that the woman helps you and accompanies you in this boarding business by showing you that she accepts your little mistakes.
Let them express themselves without stifling or interfering with your boarding. If you like her, she will not even pay attention to them.
Here. Now you know everything.
It’s high time to play;)