How To Flirt With A Girl – Impress A Girl In Less Than 3 Minutes.
THIS COULD shock you:
When you approach a girl, for the first time, you usually have only 3 minutes to flirt or even impress her.
3 minutes that will decide if you will leave with the number of the miss, get an appointment, or otherwise, return. . . empty-handed.
It is therefore very important, if not crucial, to be able to get out of the big game during these first 3 minutes of interaction with a woman, as long as you get what you want from your target (number, you, instant-date etc …)
How to pick up a girl
I will share with you very simple tips, but oh so important, to help you optimize your approaches, and therefore, succeed this big bet to flirt with a girl in less than 3 minutes, like a great seducer worthy of a name.
(In fact, a really GREAT seducer needs only a handful of seconds;))
Physical appearance – a MUST!
The first thing I’m going to focus on is your: Preparation.
3 minutes, it is not an eternity, but a very short period when you will NOT have the right to the error, especially if miss interests you so much …
By preparation, I want to talk about your physical appearance.
If you ask women the first thing they notice in a man, they’ll all bombard you with bullshit, style:
“Ah, I see his eyes”
“And I look at him if he has a beautiful smile”
“And I blah blah blah …”
The sad reality is that ALL women, without exception, look at your clothes, what YOU wear, YOUR style!
So first rule to fix in the head is to ALWAYS heal your appearance when you are outside. Even if you want to get bread in the local grocery store, try to be, at least, clean. We never know who we are going to fall.
You’re going to think I’m a perfectionist, but when I have to go shopping, I try to bring the bare minimum to what I wear, because well before that, I’ve always made stupid excuses like:
” Ohh this girl is really beautiful, let’s go to her .. uh no, I’m not well dressed today, she will reject me … “
An excuse, of course. . . can.
But I was young and inexperienced, and I do not complain.
Since the day I started to look after my appearance, no matter where I went, I forced myself to stop making stupid excuses when I saw an interesting girl, then icing on the cake, and you’ll agree with me, when we know that we are well dressed, we have more self-confidence, and it is!
Because yes, through what you wear, you must convey the image of a man who takes good care of his physical appearance, a clean and elegant man, a seductive man.
Time to seduce with your appearance = 30 seconds.
The vital importance of your Body Language
to seduce a girl
And yes, we would not stop saying it … your body language is your massive weapon of seduction!
Indeed, researchers have proven that 87% of communication with others is done through our body!
Your facial expression, how you walk, the movements of your hands, your smell (if so), and the way you manage the space you occupy (I’ve always seen draggers that point their noses to two inches of the girl) …
… are indicators that can inform many things about you, including the woman you want to seduce.
The latter will make a judgment on you, without you having opened your mouth!
I will not go into the details of body language ( already discussed here ) but I want to focus on 3 essential elements, that most seductive apprentices, tend to forget:
- The eye contact
- the voice ;
- and smile.
- Eye contact
When you approach a woman, look DIRECTLY, without restraint, in her EYES! NEVER look down (sign of submission), Do not make the chameleon (ie, zap with your eyes when you speak) and more importantly, never fix her chest because she will consider you as a disrespectful pervert.
(She has a big chest? A reason more!)
When you look at a woman right in the eye, you clearly tell her that you are a confident and reassuring man, more importantly, you let her know subtly that she interests you (especially if you take a look at the James Bond )
By keeping your eyes on your target, it is imperative to have a smile. Otherwise, Miss will think she is dealing with a gendarme who wants to check it … When you show a smile, you sub-communicate an extremely positive state of mind that can only put your target at ease and any hearing that you have to tell him.
I recently saw a video of a guy giving seductive advice. Cool special effects, nice introduction, but the moment the guy made his first sentence, I lost interest and, especially, I laughed. The guy had the voice of a dwarf. A very small voice that allowed me to spend a good quarter of a good laugh …
When speaking with a woman, you should always speak with a deep, serious and sexual voice. You do not have the right to have a dwarf voice like our friend.
You may have a royal body language, you may have a star style, you can master the Eye Contact, smile, but if you have a dwarf voice, you’re going to fuck in the air.
At the first word that you will pronounce, you will burst your target, to laugh. And you will trigger a series of mockery and jokes about you.
I do not tell you to speak like Rambo, but keep in mind that you need to have a minimum:
Speak softly, calmly and assuredly. Your flow should be neither fast nor slow, the happy medium is enough.
And if you have a high voice, which is close to that of a dwarf, know that you can work, there are tons of exercises to perform. Google is your friend!
So by betting on attractive body language, you increase your chances of seducing THIS girl, in less than 3 minutes. All you need to do is heal your body language, it will work for you. (of course, to treat it, YOU have to work it, and it is not in an exit that you will do it, but EVERY day!)
Time to seduce with your body language = 30 seconds.
What to say to flirt with a girl?
Now that you have a neat appearance, a royal body language, I can tell you that you did almost 60% of the work in one minute.
How much do we have then? Wait until I bring back my calculator … then … three minus one is 2.
We will have 2 minutes then to get the heart of the princess! But it remains very little still to succeed our bet, is not it?
Yes maybe but not that. . .
In fact, considering that we only have 2mn, we will eliminate all indirect tactics, and we will bet everything on the famous and the very expensive: Direct Game.
Because this is our only joker!
So you will proceed as a natural by focusing on your appearance and body language, then second, you simply go. . . You present!
Make it your most beautiful smile, look sensually right in the eyes, extend your hand and say:
“Hello, it’s me (your name)” …
Wait to see if she will do the same, if not, ask her the question:
“And to whom do I have the honor? “
Aside from being a fucking stuck, she will tell you her name. And that’s where the most important tip of the article comes in, which is so simple and so ordinary: Use your name in every sentence you pronounce!
Researchers have shown that the most pleasing name, which sounds like a harmonious and graceful melody in our ears, is OUR NAME.
Her name is Sarah, so repeat her name whenever you get the chance, starting with the simplest:
“Nice to meet you, Sarah, it’s nice to meet you”
Then, the second thing you need to do is find a “thing” about her, likely to compliment her subtly and intelligently … maybe she has a very fashionable bag that you like, or pretty curls etc … the thing here is that you REALLY think it seriously! Observe all its accessories and ask yourself the question:
“What’s so special about her? “
Answering this question will take you a big step! Because it’s not a stupid routine, and it’s not a rotten approach phrase, it’s just. . . Natural what you say!
And that’s right. . . Seductive!
And to finish the deal, you can finally get him something like:
” Actually, Sarah, I saw you there two minutes ago, and I thought I was! This girl looks interesting, let’s talk to her !! And it’s great, WE are talking (smile + look) »
Then ask her quickly about what she’s doing in the area, is she working here, going to the library etc …
Once she answered you, say:
” cool . . . by the way Sarah, I’m a person who likes to finish the discussions I’m starting, so I’ll take your little number and go call you to have a coffee … and if you’re nice to me, we could even go eat together, are you free next week? (look + smile) »
If she says yes, take out your phone (or your seducer’s notebook) and write down her phone number. Optionally, you can also use the tip of this article to optimize the taking of the number.
Also Read: How To Get A Girlfriend When You Are Shy
You must keep in mind, however, that your chances are 50/50. It’s live game.
You must, therefore, assume the consequences of a systematic rejection. Also, note that you must have a minimum of experience in the field. (if you only read READ, of course, you will crash)
But if you carefully apply the instructions I gave you today, trust me, you will have the opportunity to multiply your chances of landing phone numbers or even appointments simply by applying the schema. at the top, by the mere fact of appealing to the natural and seductive man, who lies dormant in you. . .