How To Understand Women? Female psychology Simply Explained!
Finally, you would like to know how to understand women? In this video, I explain the feminine psychology and why women think with their emotions while men think with their reason.
Hi everyone and welcome! Who among you has never dreamed of understanding women? That’s good because that’s what we’re going to see today!
For most men, female psychology is a real headache. They do not find them logical, they are unpredictable and contradictory! However, if we look a little deeper into the pattern of thoughts of women, it is exactly the opposite!
Men and women are very different from a psychological point of view, but that does not mean that one or the other is illogical! Otherwise, it would be like comparing football to basketball, without understanding that they are certainly two sports with rules and conditions of play specific to each.
So the first thing I’m going to ask you if you want to understand women is to destroy the assumptions you made about women:
– Women do not like sport
– Women are fragile
– Women are less intelligent
– Women have to cook
All these statements are false! Why? Because you have to understand that every woman is different and that to understand them, you can not do generalities.
The complex of the easy girl
A man who sleeps with lots of women is a Stud, a woman who sleeps with lots of guys, she’s a bitch! I’m learning nothing. But know that a woman, who does without wanting, many advances, she too is considered an easy girl …
Unfortunately, in our society, we educate young girls with the easy girl complex. For the vast majority of women, it is unthinkable to be categorized as a drag! They must do everything so that they do not stick this label on the back, otherwise, their reputation takes a hit!
So to better understand feminine psychology, understand that it is almost normal for a girl, to emit resistance when a guy comes to address it. If she accepts the advances of a stranger (especially in front of her girlfriends), she knows she will pass for an easy girl!
The complex of the easy girl is so steeped in the collective consciousness that it must help us understand why girls are often on the defensive. When a girl covers us, gives us a wind, a rake, it is not really us that she pushes back, but it is often the label of the easy girl.
Women live by emotion and not by reason
Women are much more sensitive to their emotions than men. To put it simply, men think with their reason, women think with their emotions. This is what makes some men say that women are illogical!
Yet women are far from illogical! The filter that passes all the information that comes to them is just different. Men have the filter of reason and women, that of emotions!
The interpretation of the same information for a woman and a man is not the same. To give you an example, a father gets a phone call from his son to pick him up at school because he finished an hour earlier. The father will certainly say that he has other things to do and that his kid can wait one hour for his bus.
While the mother, she, in the same situation, will say that it is unthinkable that his son remains alone one hour outside! He might get a problem, get mugged or bullshit. The woman will take a break from work to pick up her son, while the father will not do it.
I do not want to create a debate here about who men or women are right … We do not care! I just want to make you understand that men and women do not interpret the information they receive in the same way. To understand women, this info is essential!
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Women appreciate stability
Contrary to what can be read on many sites of seduction, women appreciate stability. Not monotonous stability, habits and all that … No! We talk about relational and emotional stability.
In fact, mature women avoid guys who lack self-control and are emotionally unstable. These guys are not the best parts to form a healthy and sustainable couple … So be careful not to play too bad boy!
On the contrary, women find men impassive in the face of danger, incredibly attractive! Men who know how to show that mockery does not reach them, are one step ahead!
Moreover, that explains why girls often seek to destabilize us. In fact, they test us for two reasons. The first, I told you just before, it is to not soil their reputations, they must be combative not to be easy girls.
The second is simply to test ourselves and see if we have the shoulders of a suitor, friend or acquaintance. Women need to make sure that the man with whom they are planning a relationship, is a guy with his head on his shoulders and who is not a mop …
I feel like you’re starting to understand why some women behave in a provocative and destabilizing way! To seduce a girl, always keep that in mind.
Understanding women: they seek safety
If we go back in time, at the time of prehistory, the daily life of the human was much more dangerous than today! Before, it was impossible for a woman to survive alone. They had to be accompanied by a strong man to protect her and her offspring.
At the time, men physically protected their wives against attacks and participated in basic needs (food, housing, etc.). Couples “man who protects the family/woman raising the family” were really necessary for the survival of the species.
Today, the world has evolved and the need to have a Balèze partner is no longer the same. But as our unconscious takes a lot longer to evolve than our habits, this way of choosing a partner is still present today.
The difference is that today’s women are looking for more financial and material security for themselves and their offspring than physical security. We do not live in a world as dangerous as before!
Although our society has changed completely, women still seek to satisfy this need through several criteria, such as:
– Social intelligence
– The social status
– The protective physique
But to reassure you, no need to possess all these criteria to be an attractive man. What’s important to understand is that these criteria are powerful assets to help you become more attractive to women.
Also Read: The 3 Types of Men Who Attract Women
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Women like to be guided
This is a subject that is often disputed, but yet, through the many relationships I have had, I have always been able to verify it, or almost. Women like to be guided.
Women are looking for an environment where they can evolve and express themselves freely. She is looking for men with their heads on their shoulders and who knows what they want. Men with an opinion and who know how to make decisions rather than answer “I do not know, how you want”.
Of course, I do not say that women love dictators, but they like men who know how to take things into their own hands. You will be much more attractive if you know:
– Where to take him a drink
– Where to take him to eat
– Where to join
– Which way to take
– When you sit down
Knowing how to make decisions quickly rather than hesitating for a long time is very exciting for a woman. Certainly because taking a quick decision shows a good ability to take action. So the next time a girl asks you “what do we do?”, Know what to say to her instantly!