What Do Women Really Want? The Answer Will Surprise You!
It’s not you. It’s the ass!
The most effective seduction methods all have ONE thing in common:
Pleasure first and then you
Small parenthesis: to better convey the message, I use the words “sex” and “pleasure” interchangeably:
- When you look seductively and when you approach her physically, you offer him … pleasure.
- When you talk to him openly about your sexual desires, you offer him … pleasure.
- When you take her hand and pull her towards you, you offer her … pleasure.
On the other hand, when you try to say “good things” and to be funny and interesting, you do not offer him pleasure. You’re trying to sell yourself.
Well, I know you’re a funny and interesting guy. But you’re not more funny and interesting than pleasure.
Selling yourself is appropriate in many situations: work, the first meeting with your girlfriend’s parents …
But to seduce a girl quickly, the most effective way is to sell her the idea of pleasure.
Do not take it personally
By selling yourself, it is much more difficult for you to accept rejection. You try to look interesting, you show him your personality and you share intimate details. She reacts, “No, that’s nice. Thank you, but I’m not interested. ” Ouch, It hurts. And you do not want to be persistent anymore.
Imagine that you go out tonight to flirt. What will your goal be? Do you promote yourself (and possibly sex afterward)? Or promote the idea of sex (preferably with you)?
If you spend 90% of your time promoting yourself and 10% promoting pleasure, I advise you to reverse things.
The reality is that YOU are not so important. Sex is a fantastic experience in itself. You are replaceable.
Are you not convinced? You just have to observe the phenomenon of “transfer of excitement”. You heat a girl and it is her boyfriend who derives the benefits.
Think. If “something is happening”, how much is due to what you said or did? And how much is due to the fact that sex is a pleasant experience in itself?
Is it you or is it the experience?
Let’s be reasonable. And let’s say it’s a mix of both. I know, we’d all like to believe it’s due to our irresistible charisma and infallible seduction powers.
Your greatest asset is not your charisma, your chat, your money, your intelligence or your beautiful body. It’s your ability to give him pleasure. That’s all … And it’s not always easy to admit.
When talking to a group of girls, even being polite, why do we still tend to ignore the least attractive girl? Because we believe that it can not give us pleasure. Women are the same. If you do not offer them pleasure, they will ignore you.
Women love the pleasure
Many men find it difficult to believe that “women love sex”. But when you tell them that “women love pleasure”, there they capture instantly.
When you drag a woman, you do not try to convince her to risk her life by climbing Mont Blanc.
When you bring a girl home, you do not try to convince her to run a marathon with you. It would be too difficult. Sell him the idea of pleasure, on the other hand, it’s easy.
You must understand that pleasure is a “product” that women want to buy. That’s why I laugh when I hear “you have to wait for a certain number of appointments before putting a woman in bed”.
Once again, we are not asking him to commit a murder or to lend us 100,000 euros. We talk about pleasure!
Sex is a drug
Would an addict refuse a coke line? Of course not. Well, sex is a drug. And besides, sex is a FREE drug.
In other words, when the attraction is mutual, having a pleasant experience – like sex – does not require much persuasion. Most of the time sex sells itself.
Deciding to have sex depends mostly on mood and emotions (envy and excitement). Once the seduction is explicit and mutual, you the individual, you no longer play any role.
You just showed him how fantastic you are. You like him. You do not have to try to sell yourself anymore. It’s time to sell … PLEASURE!
Of course, you are a confident and attractive guy. But do not forget that the pleasure itself is even more attractive.
It’s not you. It’s fun!